Is he scared of my Daddy?

Katrina wrote:

There's a guy that I like a lot. I tried to ask him out and stuff but it's a real long story so I won't tell it now.

I know he likes me as a good friend, but I don't know if he likes me more than that. If I did ask him out, I know some reasons he'd say no.

I went out with his friend, and also his sister and brother work for my daddy and he knows my daddy so that might be a bit freaky ya know?

But could you tell me what might turn him on and look at me at least a little bit more in "that way"? I really like him a lot. And when I talk to him or look at him I sometimes seem to smile. I don't LOVE him yet so don't say anything about LOVE unless you think I'm in LOVE, but I don't think I'm quite there yet.

Dear Katrina

He's male, he likes you as a friend ... Has he had the opportunity?

Men are simple creatures. Given means, motive and opportunity, they don't generally need chemicals in the coffee.

So you have to ask yourself why he's not biting. Maybe it's your Dad; would he punish the others if this guy hurts you? Maybe his friend gave too much away (or you gave too much away to his friend). Maybe he's already taken.

Be honest with yourself, if there were no negatives, would he go for you? If yes, you need to find out what the problem is - and sort it.

On the other hand, what is it about him that you like? Is it just because he's not drooling over you - Is it spite his pal? I'm not suggesting it's either, but you need to know what you're going to get!