Is he scared of my Daddy?
There's a guy that
I like a lot. I tried to ask him out and
stuff but it's a real long story so I won't
tell it now.
I know he likes me as a good friend, but
I don't know if he likes me more than that.
If I did ask him out, I know some reasons
he'd say no.
I went out with his friend, and also his
sister and brother work for my daddy and
he knows my daddy so that might be a bit
freaky ya know?
But could you tell me what might turn
him on and look at me at least a little
bit more in "that way"? I really
like him a lot. And when I talk to him
or look at him I sometimes seem to smile.
I don't LOVE him yet so don't say anything
about LOVE unless you think I'm in LOVE,
but I don't think I'm quite there yet.
He's male, he likes you as a friend ...
Has he had the opportunity?
Men are simple creatures. Given means,
motive and opportunity, they don't generally
need chemicals in the coffee.
So you have to ask yourself why he's not
biting. Maybe it's your Dad; would he punish
the others if this guy hurts you? Maybe
his friend gave too much away (or you gave
too much away to his friend). Maybe he's
Be honest with yourself, if there were
no negatives, would he go for you? If yes,
you need to find out what the problem is
- and sort it.
On the other hand, what is it about him
that you like? Is it just because he's
not drooling over you - Is it spite his
pal? I'm not suggesting it's either, but
you need to know what you're going to get!