Just met - and he's gone
Let me cut to the chase, I met a guy through
a friend of mine. He sent out all the right
signals that he was interested and made
it crystal clear to others around him.
Not to brag, but I am a very attractive
woman if I do say so myself.
After a few weeks and
after our first physical encounter he decided
three days later to get back with some
hideous ex. He left me a message at home
while I was at work!
Aside from that tackyness
he said he didn't want to lead me on. Wasn't
he already doing that? I responded by leaving
him a message. The gist of that was basically
he was weak and selfish and disrespectful
Though I am not in
love do you think I scared him or what?
I was not a bitch in any way in the message.
What happened? My intuition is very keen
scary in fact and I picked up nothing to
see this coming.Though he said he wanted
to stay friends and hang out I told him
he would have to be the one to initiate
any future dealings.
You've heard the old
saying, "All Men Are B*****"? Well, now
you've seen the proof. He'd split up with
the 'Ex', maybe convinced himself, as well
as you, that it was final.
Once things began to
look serious with you, he had to ask himself
"is this what I want?"; quite possibly
she did the "You've had a month to think
about it" routine.
I can't, of course,
guarantee this version of events - but
ask the friend who introduced you - if
she says she felt sorry for him, that's
your proof. Men are weak and selfish, especially
when a relationship breaks down.
Don't blame yourself
- and don't be around next time he weakens
- that's how mistresses happen.