I broke a promise
Me and my boyfriend have been dating for
a year and a half. He asked me to promise
I wouldn't drink any alcohol before I went
on my trip to the beach.
Well I broke my promise to him, and I got dared to take off my shirt,
(bra still on) well because I was drinking I went ahead and don't
it, when I'm sober I wouldn't do something like that.
Now he asked me why he should trust and forgive me? And I'm not sure
how to answer him. I'm truely sorry, I regret it all, and don't know
what to do.
It's difficult to help you, because you
are not being honest with me, are you?
This whole thing hinges on Why He Asked
You To Promise, doesn't it? Is it because
he already didn't trust you? is it because
he has a problem? Is it because of who
you would be with? (strange, you never
said. Girlfriends? One person? 50?).
Maybe he's boring, you want out, and you
want him to make the decision, so you're
pushing him past his limit. Maybe you were
punishing him. Maybe you just need to grow
Mirror time: Look yourself in the eye
(sober if you can manage it) and ask yourself
"What do I want?". If you want
him, then look after him. If you don't,
deal with it before the world thinks you
are a lying no-good ... you get the picture!